TRY this when People STARE to INTIMIDATE YOU… SIMPLE HACK Avoids Street Fights

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1. Will the click lance and keep walking is not working for me…… Sure the other person disappeared but I'm mad because they were staring at me in the 1st place making some type of fault accusation…… And it was a really creepy staring….. They wanted to fight….. They wanted to fight because they were telling me they can beat me…… I want them to attack me so I can Spray them… But they never attack me and they never even walk forward…. It can be a man or a woman feminist they never do anything…. Just stare…. When you come from a family of narcissist it's really tough handling people that stare at you

2. Quick glance………..keep walking

3. "Whatta ya lookin at?"
   …Not much. HaHaHa!

4. the problem is that even if you win you will get sued. but yep if it is your family you go to the death. it's not intellectual is guttural and only so many people male or female will do it.

5. Knew a bloke called Percy (had some skills)….if talk & squaring off started…Percy would grab his footballers mouthpiece from his pocket n put it in his mouth…..Percy started talking funny…and tempers would calm down.

6. I look at them and then walk to the loo or outside, deliberately walking past them but not looking at them, if taking such a route is not too blatantly obvious (if they're located between me and the door, I step outside and if they're between me and the loo, that's where I head).
   That way, I'm giving them an opportunity to "take it outside" if it's really what they want (and they know that's what I'm doing) because, if it is their determination, why waste time? Better to get it over with than have it dragging on and on plus it's also gonna be in my time and place of choosing.
   Almost invariably, when I return, they've either left or have relocated to an entirely different part of the room.
   From then onwards, I entirely ignore them whilst never (for long) entirely removing them from my peripheral field of vision.
   Alternatively, if they go to the loo, I also go whilst they're there and consciously walk straight down the middle of whatever room or corridor we might end up sharing.
   I've honed how to do that in a confident yet non-inflammatory way.
   Works nine times out of ten.

7. I know the trick.
   Look at the guy, then straight away look at their pockets or wallet or chains or shoes or anything valuable that they have.
   And kind of focus on that while you pass through.
   Ofcourse is also how you carry out your self as well.

8. "What you looking at?!"

   "Sorry bro, you look a lot like my friend Joe. I thought you were him for a second."

9. I laugh at the person staring 🤣 but then again I don't spend time in stupid places.

10. If I inadvertently make eye contact with anyone or someone is staring at me I usually give a thumbs up a quick nod or a Whats up nod or half wave if someone is staring at me in an intimidating manner I'm a give a quick salute most important thing is don't let it bother you it's not a problem until it becomes a problem body language facial expression stand up straight walk with confidence and a calm demeanor maintain a poker face a facial expression of indifference no emotional content not happy sad angry mad confident unafraid indifferent

11. Actually, what you do is open your eyes wide and look crazy, kind of like Mel Gibson. Works great for me

12. Flash a big smile and say hello in a loud, kind, confident, yet genuinely friendly tone. If it's going to go south after that you'll have plenty of warning.

13. Tbh all you need to do is smile and say hi or something and walk off. Kindness is something that doesn’t happen to majority of the people that will stare at you unless you really get the wrong person

14. This guy gives really really bad advice. Just look away and keep working… Who the hell cares? Who’s ego is that big that you can’t just keep walking??

15. Be aware of them. Give a head nod. Scared people will show fear and stare. Shit disturbers will stare and gesture. Just acknowledge them but dont full their ego.

16. I always have bear spray.

17. After getting stared at by several different people while out running errands, the reminder and reality of "you'll never see these people again" really helps a lot

18. What kind of bored mofo gets into it about getting looked at? I’ve never understood this.

19. Notice your environment at all times. Pariferial vision is very important. Don't puff up. Keep a proper posture at times. Looking around is ok and let's potential trouble know you aren't a patsy. Don't stare!

20. Just look back into there eyes most pwople are wanna bes and if your real even the real dont wanna get into shit with you nobody wants to get into a fight wirh someone they think can also inflict harm on them

21. I glance, sometimes I smile confidently too. Never had a bad outcome

22. If looking away fails you can jerk, twitch, cock your head , look askew and say Please God Don't Make Me Kill Again.

23. A slight nod works. It indicates acknowledgement and a mutual respect.

24. I’m glad I’m big (not fat) and look intimidating. I never worry about this stuff and my gf feels safe with me in any situation.
    However I’ll probably die younger than most.

25. say hey how you doin man it will mess up their mind set your not threatening or afraid or say were in a movie complimentary and not afraid as long as your not insulting and not afraid most pricks move on

26. Its usually just short old white men that do that to me. Its really weird a whole generation had it so easy they are doing it at their age.

27. I found that winking at them has a rather odd response. 😂 also, saying something that sounds like a foreign language is a bit disarming.

28. I’ve always ignored mfs who engage in this and they never try anything.

29. I remember this one time I was sitting in the car and this guy walked out eyeballing me, side necking me as he walked by. I jumped out of the car and asked him what his problem was. He said, nothing bro, I was admiring your ride. I can't even see inside your car. I looked at my car and the sun was glaring off my windshield and you couldn't see anything but reflections. I felt like the biggest dick, stood out there apologizing and talking about cars for like a half an hour. Decent guy.

30. Blah blah blah

31. Do not look… ffs

32. I was picked on most of my childhood, I was fat, came from a poor family and I had a learning disability. I really did not know what to do about it until I saw the first Rocky movie and I started training, I never stopped, by the time I started my freshmen year in high school I was thin and had some skills, a bully that was much older than me thought he was going to pick on me so I hit him with a hard upper cut that I learned while boxing at the Boys Club and I knocked him TFO! After that there was a lot less people trying to bully me. I never stopped training and I actually opened one of the first MMA gyms in my area, and I taught many people how to not be bullied. If you are being bullied or know someone who is being bullied, get into the gym, learn BJJ, BOXING, KICKBOXING or Muay Thai and the bullying will stop after you gain some skills, if you choose one of these disciplines you will build real skills quickly because you will be pressure tested daily and that's how you learn to fight. You will build usable skills in about 6 months, you wont be amazing at that point but you will be able to deal with most bullies if you have good trainers. it works every time!

33. If you are not a mma fighter, show him your gun and give them a chance to back down.

34. I just give people the crazy Charles Manson eyes

35. I was told by my dad, was to look at their shoes/feet. It freaks them out, it throws them off and it works

36. If someone is staring at me I usually make eye contact, then look away (but not down, timidly) keeping my head up and then eventually I glance back to see if they are still staring. Usually they're not, but if they are – I stare back until they either look away or they don't seem like they're going to give me any trouble, at which point I just keep walking. Always best case scenario to just avoid fights.

37. I like the idea, here, but I've certainly never tried it. Never even occurred to me that this might be an option. But I'm inclined to agree with Phil Kasafir on this. At least it's always been my experience that showing weakness is never good. I believe that it's better to lose strong than to lose weak. Throughout human history when a man stares it means he's challenging you. I'm not saying that this technique wouldn't work but it seems like it would take a lot of practice because it's counter intuitive for both tough guys and not so tough guys.

38. I just give'em a nod and keep walking. Usually they nod back!

39. I have found that if you smile, give a nod, and generally treat them with respect that the vast majority of times you can avoid a conflict even with someone who is a member of a gang you are not a member of. Within my life, mostly when in my late teens and early twenties, I've had a lot of run-ins with different types of gangs, white, black, brown, and even yellow. Over a period spanning at least 15 years I had perhaps 3 fights happen and each was not that serious and was made up afterwards without a feud forming. Getting too close is bad, showing fear is bad, being disrespectful is bad, looking down upon them as if you are better than they are is bad, acting like they are the boss is bad.

40. smile and look away with smooth words…show no fear…move slightly not to be open to attack.
    body back, slim figure, arms free,,,,

41. As a Brazilian guy from Rio de Janeiro i know very well these situations. The thing that always saved me many time even from guys that swore to kill me, because they just didn't liked me, was to have a good talk, show confidence without trying to be aggressive, or showing to be a threat to them. You need to understand and recognise their background and to talk like them, ask them how things are going, sometimes be some sort of generous, offer some cigarettes. The cigarette part i didn't smoked at all, but it always was some sort of leverage or currency to gain their empathy offering them to smoke and light it. Doing this i got a lot of respect from this though guys, that anytime happened that someone from my barrios, the tipical wealthy guys wanted to do something to me, this though guys always came to my help.
    This is how i survived as a teenager in Rio de Janeiro and other very Violent part in Brazil. You need to be nice, to them making some non offensive jokes, and show that you are not superior to them.
    I think there's so much discrimination and etc, that they feel threatened, and start this ego Battle to show that they are the bosses and the area. The non confrontation is the best weapon.

42. That's when you say "Hey Bruh… where did you get your hair cut… because i need to get my boots fixed".😂

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