Mama’s Boy or Daddy’s Girl? (Compilation)

Mama's Boy or Daddy's Girl? (Compilation)
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How to tell if someone has had mother or father issues in their past?

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  1. Never again. I have healed and I choose my peace on a regular. This people are energy vampires for reals. When they go into relationship they dont go to love you or care about you but they look for their mother or father in you. I was more lonely in that toxic relationship than I was already alone as a single mom. Never again. Gone no contact towards my ex and he has discarded his child. Underdeveloped children for reals and they stay stock in their peterpan syndrome till death. Leave while you can because there's no love. I kept attracting older men because of my own father wounds because I never had a father growing up and then we attract exactly what our father were. Narcissistic and toxic and emotional unavailable parents to their children. My ex who is a Nigerian believed that women should be submissive and women aint allowed to have a voice except him alone but he saw me as a threat because i have a voice and i walked away and tossed him aside same way he tossed me aside and his karma is he cant bond with his child and hates his child because his child is an extension of me not him and the child listens to me not him and the child loves me not him and The child has a bond with me not him. So he discards the child and doesn't pay child support in the form of punishment towards the child and ex. My Ex carries the sins of his own father and everything his own father was , Is exactly what he is and thats why he failed at everything and at 40 he has Nothing to show for and failed as a father to his own child. He was his fathers Golden child and my ex taught what he saw was " love" from his father and now as an adult he is carrying all the sins of his father. He became his father . Sad isnt it? My ex only cared about his job and making money than bonding with his own child. He speaks ill of his parents but when his father died he flew to Nigeria to see if he can for a last time get that closeness by pleasing his father from the grave which he never got. He thought doing all the things his dead father wants will give him the closeness he always wanted by being a people pleaser. It was when i left him that I came to understand the kind of childhood he had. As an empath I saw his childhood and the kind of person he was when i walked away from the toxic relationship. It all made sense and found out he is a covert narcissist. When i left him, he cut his hair with scissors and his roommate caught him and asked him why he was chopping his hair off, he said he just felt like doing it. I went no contact ever since

  2. Thank you Sam V .. you are so knowledgeable on this topic. I think I have watched everything you've ever done. Thank you for saving a whole generation from that which had become normalized in our society.

  3. Sam, you said there is a gender war and women are winning. But recently studies have found younger women have worse mental health and AI will replace mostly female held jobs. Do you think this changes things?

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